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Wedding Expenses: Do I Feed the Wedding Photographer and Band?

One Valley bride wonders if she can save a little money by not providing a meal for her wedding photographer and band

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The Wedding Guru says: There is no “law” that covers your question, but here’s the deal: Many wedding professionals, particularly those who are around for the entire event, include a stipulation in their contracts that says that they need to be fed. Even if it’s not contractual, it’s both a nice gesture and a smart one to offer them a meal. Do you really expect someone to spend 10 hours working for you and not eating? Do you really want them to bring and eat a bagged lunch and dinner?

What you don’t need to do is to offer them alcoholic beverages; soft drinks and water are fine. However, keep in mind that there’s nothing stopping them for walking up to the bar and getting a drink. Why not be a sport and tell them it’s okay (provided they know how to hold their liquor)?

As for the added expense, talk to your caterer and ask if a lighter meal like sandwiches can be made available, or if they will feed the wedding professionals at a discounted rate. It’s also a good idea to find a space where they can eat undisturbed.

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Tying the knot shouldn't put knots in your stomach, so whether you're the blushing bride, hubby-to-be, or even a wedding guest, The Wedding Guru Judy Lewis can answer all of your wedding-related questions.

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